Why this matters
Romance and trust-based scams are among the most painful kinds of fraud — they cost people money and betray their emotions. A fraudster builds a genuine-feeling relationship over weeks or months, then uses that trust to ask for money or draw you into a fake investment. Anyone can be targeted; these scams exploit kindness and connection, not carelessness.
How these scams work
The connection. You meet online — a dating app, social media, or a "wrong number" message that turns friendly.
The trust. They message often, seem caring and attentive, and build a strong bond. They usually avoid meeting in person or on live video.
The reason to send money. Eventually a need appears: an emergency, travel to visit you, medical bills, or a "great" investment they want to share. → See: Investment Scams & Fake Opportunities
The escalation. Requests continue and grow. If you hesitate, they use emotional pressure or guilt.
A common variant is the "pig butchering" scam, where the relationship is used to steer you into a fake crypto platform. → See: Crypto Scams & Fake Platforms
Warning signs
A new online contact who grows very close very quickly.
They avoid in-person meetings and live video, often with excuses.
Their story doesn't quite add up, or photos look too polished.
Conversation eventually turns to money or investing.
Requests to send money by transfer, crypto, gift cards, or vouchers.
Emotional pressure or guilt if you hesitate.
They ask you to keep the relationship secret from friends and family.
How to protect yourself
Be cautious sending money to anyone you haven't met in person, no matter how strong the connection feels.
Never invest through a platform introduced by an online-only contact.
Slow down and talk to someone you trust. Fraudsters isolate victims; an outside view often spots what emotion hides.
Do a reverse image search of profile photos if something feels off.
Protect your personal information and don't let a relationship pressure you into financial decisions. → See: Protecting Your Personal Data Online
A gentle reminder
Falling for a romance scam is nothing to be ashamed of — these fraudsters are skilled manipulators who target genuine, caring people. What matters is stopping the loss and reaching out for help without embarrassment.
What to do if you're affected
Stop sending money and pause the contact.
Contact us through the 24/7 in-app support chat if you sent money from your account.
Don't respond to further requests, including "recovery" offers that target victims again.
Keep messages and details and report it — this helps us and others.
Reach out to someone you trust for support; you don't have to handle it alone.
→ See: I Think I've Been Scammed: Immediate Steps